I had too much to drink last night at a party and ended up actually having a threesome that I can barely remember. I don't really drink.. ever. I'm sort of known as a goody two shoes that never does anything wrong. Of course everyone at the party knew, and I'm not stupid so I know it's probably going to go around and I'll be labeled as something really innapropriate. How do I deal with this? I'm not drinking again in a realllllllllly long time haha.
Had too much to drink..?
I'm confused.....no amount of alcohol would put me into as compromising as a threesome. As to think that it happened and other people knew!! Wow, I think I would be a bit more concerned than the ending tone of your question which was, long time ha, ha. This is not a joke. This is your life. The tone you set for yourself is one that is going to stay with you for a long, long time. People are going to remember you as the girl who had a threesome at the party, not the goody two shoes. Miss Goody Two Shoes is gone forever!!!
Yes you will be labeled as something inappropriate. You need to do a 360 degree turn around and not drink at all if this is the type of thing that happens to you.
Please make sure you get tested for STD's and AIDs. Be glad you cannot remember. I sure wouldn't want to.
You may think I am being harsh but this IS THE ETIQUETTE section and what you did showed no class at all.
Turn your life around. Leave the booze alone. Leave the people alone who allowed you to drink so much that you got into the situation. Anyone who was there who you consider a friend would no longer be a friend of mine because they allowed you to have a threesome with these guys. Find something else to do other than drink. You can overcome this but for a while you will be the "that girl". Be prepared for it and your best bet is to just ignore people's comments and hold your head high. Hope and pray it doesn't get back to your parents. Good luck...you're going to need it. Watch out so you never wind up in a situation like that again..anything could have happened to you if you were so intoxicated..you could have been hurt, or raped or killed. Be glad you are alive and well. Take better care of yourself and loveself a whole lot more. You can make it through this as long as you love yourself.
Reply:Since it was a threesome, I'd say you can share in the embarrassment. Some people will chide you and others wont remember anything about it by next week. Luckily or unluckily-you arent the first one to have a threesome and I venture to say you wont be the last. It would be a very good idea to watch your drinking, unless you want to repeat doing stupid things. I'd be willing to bet you're taking it a lot moe serious than other people will.
Reply:I would recommend that you stay sober. Threesomes are much more enjoyable if you are alert and all your senses are intact. I could not tell if you are a male or female. If you are female and the other two are guys, guess what? Guys always talk about their successes. After they talk you may get a lot more dating opportunities but take them on one at a time. You would not want to get a reputation as a slut that will do anything - or anybody. Would you?
Reply:You don't seem to realize that this is a really big deal that can lead to serious problems like pregnancy, STD's, and ugly stories that may never go away. Underage drinking is stupid and illegal. Now you know why.
Reply:Don't go into situations that serve drinks; especially open bars.
Reply:well they might give you a bad time but you are a goody tusues it wont last long so just let it go
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